How to Make a Long Distance Relationship Work

It's hard enough to make local relationships work, but having miles, States, and sometimes even an ocean between you makes it even more difficult. However, successful long distance relationships can and do exist. Here's how to give yours every chance to survive and thrive.

Steps

1. Ask the important questions at the onset, to make sure you are both clear on the parameters of the relationship. These can be difficult and awkward questions to ask, but will save you great heartache and misunderstanding down the line. Example: "Are you open to the possibility of relocating if the relationship should become more serious?"
2. Communicate in some way every day, more than once if possible. Since you won't be seeing each other, it's important to establish and maintain an emotional connection. These don't have to be long, in-depth conversations (though those should occur sometimes). Tell each other about your little triumphs and tragedies. Ask for advice. Use an instant messenger program or VoIP for real-time chat, or web cams for that visual connection, but while instant messaging and e-mails play a large role in long distance relationships, remember that they can in no way replace verbal communication. E-mail is great so make sure you use it, especially if long-distance phone calls put a strain on your budget.(Even though phone calls might get a little too expensive, there are special cards if you are to call each other from different countries, there will be no problems with costs since it is very cheap. We highly recommend you get one of those cards, it will be a lot cheaper and from experience E-mail and instant messages makes it easier to misunderstand each other.) Write love letters. Send small gifts or flowers for no reason. In this case, quantity is as important as quality. You may discover an advantage over others whose partner is close at hand - you don't take communication for granted!
3. Take advantage of the benefits a long distance relationship offers: more time with friends and/or family, no arguments over toothpaste caps, the pleasure of seeing your sweetheart again after a long absence, time to mull your options (rather than snapping at your partner impulsively) before you respond to that email s/he wrote that seemed so rude the first time you read it, etc. Most important, being far apart gives you a chance to maintain your individuality - something that can get lost in the shuffle when couples spend all their free time together.
4. Pursue common interests, even if it means pursuing them apart. If there's a movie you're both interested in seeing, watch it individually and then call each other afterward and talk about it. Read a certain book at the same time. Stargaze while on you're on the phone. Set your watches to go off at the same time every day, and synchronize your alarm with that of your partner. Make it a point to think of each other when your watch goes off, and revel in the fact that he or she is thinking about you, too. Find creative ways to bond.
5. Avoid the temptation to be controlling. People have free will and no one can or should control another person. As long as you are both interested in being in the relationship, you will stick with it and distance will not make a difference. As soon as one of you decides the other is not a good match - or someone else is a better match - your relationship ends, whether you live 3000 miles apart, two streets over, or share the same bed with your wedding picture on the wall. You are going to have to trust each other completely if this relationship is going to work.
6. Talk about your future together. Assuming that ultimately you'd want to live together, discussing how you're going to get to that point will help you prove to each other that the relationship is going somewhere and that your efforts and frustrations are not in vain.
7. Know when to say good-bye. While this is tough in any relationship, this can be especially hard over long distances. When communication becomes one-sided or sparse for too long and for no apparent reason, when arguments (yes, you'll have them) become too frequent, when the whole thing just seems like more trouble than it's worth, it's time to re-evaluate the relationship. Either you'll decide to go your separate ways, or you'll get closer for having overcome another obstacle to your happiness together.
8. Remember things will get better with time, and even the relationship will become better. Have hope.

Tips

• A long distance relationship is no different from a proximal relationship in that they both require a great deal of work, excellent communication, patience, sacrifice and understanding. But you will have to work extra hard to maintain the communication and to stay focused enough to not let your daily life interfere with your desire to be with the other person. Don't forget them or you can forget the relationship and it will all be over.
• One of the hardest parts of a long distance relationship is connecting when one person gets busier than the other. If this happens in a relationship it is important to maintain communication. If you are the busy person, try to warn your partner ahead of time that you will be working many hours and may have limited time. If you are the not-as-busy person, take advantage of the time by picking up a new hobby, getting in shape, reading a new book, etc. Flexibility is very important.
• It helps to have a solid time in the future for when the long distance part of the relationship will end, no matter the time length. Without it, the relationship can begin to mold into something that is always distant - even with great communication. With it, each person can see the point at which the distance will end and work harder to keep emotions readily available.
• When talking to your partner, take note of things they enjoy the most (hobbies, day-to-day activities, etc.), and do a little research on it so you have more to do when you see them next. For example: If your partner likes to dance, find the location of different clubs where you will see them next. If you don't know how to dance, take lessons and you will impress them by your willingness to make an effort on their behalf.
• Buy a game that you can play together over the internet, such as a MMORPG (massively multi-player online role playing game). You will be able to chat while playing and it will give a greater feeling of togetherness.
• Mail each other scented clothes.
• Send each other spontaneous ecards.
• Make a creative countdown and mail it to your partner to enjoy until you see each other next. For example, create a photo calendar, with something you add for each day to describe what you love about them.
• Do not set unreasonable expectations for your visit. Fantasizing about the visit is fine, but not out loud or by email to your partner. Instead, enjoy the excitement of the surprises to come.
• The Long Distance Relationship Guidebook is a well-balanced, practical book for couples in long distance relationships who need some guidance.
• Buy a webcam so you can chat face to face and see each other, so when you meet you will remember what they look like.
• Consider the fact that living far apart gives you both a chance to grow as individuals. Some couples break up to "find themselves", but in a long distance relationship you both have enough space to do your own things and still have a connection.

Warnings

• Remember, every kind of relationship takes hard work and dedication to your loved one or partner, whether it's long distance or proximal. If you and your partner are willing to take these steps, then expect bumps and turns in the road. These bumps and turns will only help contribute towards a relationship.
• Long distance relationships are not for the faint of heart. They can be very trying - but so can proximal relationships.
• Long distance relationships can and will test you and your partner; you need to trust him/her entirely as paranoia can play a major part in the demise of your relationship. Also, these kinds of relationships can bring a lot of disappointment and heartache--depending on the time you spend away from each other it is VERY important that if you want this relationship to work you must make a great effort not to drift apart.
• Long distance relationships are difficult, as you are emotionally attached to a person you cannot touch or comfort (hug, kiss, hold hands), and this can hurt your heart and wreak havoc with your emotions. The only way to make these relationships work is if you and your partner honestly believe you will be able to survive without each other for a considerable amount of time without the need or desire to be with someone else.

7 Tips to Better Arguments

Everyone disagrees at some point or another, the trick is how to "discuss' without resorting to name-calling, finger-pointing or personal attacks. This may be easy with a store clerk, but with a spouse or friend things can get complicated quick. These are a few tips this Irish, red-head has picked up through ten years of marriage and many clients...

1. Shut your mouth and listen. Actually listen to the person you are in conflict with - do not plan your next verbal attack while the other person is speaking. A way to force yourself to do this is to repeat back to the other person what their complaint is after him/her stops speaking. For example, "I hear you are mad at me because I am late, correct?"

2. Walk away to take some time to settle down. Sometimes whatever you are arguing about can be quite painful or upsetting and you may start feeling yourself becoming defensive and/or accusing - this is not going to lead to a positive outcome, so allow yourself some space to settle down. Let your partner know you need some time to settle down and try to set up another time to discuss this later. Doing this allows you to focus on the "real issues" instead of your "bad reactions" that may distract you from the "real issues." Some years ago when my husband and I were in marriage counseling, he would do something stupid/selfish and I would go ballistic. It took us a long time to get to his very, real bad behaviors because my reactions would be so outrageous as to eclipse his negative behaviors. I had to learn to settle myself down before/during discussions as to deal with the real issues.

3. Breathing. Sometimes in the heat of an argument you may realize you are holding your breath or experiencing shallow breathing. Stop speaking for a few moments and just breathe. Use your breath to sooth yourself back down to more relaxed space - you will notice you can listen better and have more clarity after you regain your footing.

4. Do you want to be right or do you want to find common ground? This is your ego wanting to "win" your arguments. Being right all the time can ultimately lead to isolation and loneliness. The real question to ask yourself is - why do I have to be right? Ask yourself in the middle of an argument - am I trying to be right or can we compromise? It takes two people to argument, but one to make a change for the better.

5. What is your part? Be honest, you do have a part - even if it is very small. The quicker you can focus on your part in the argument, the quicker you will get to resolution. When you discover your part, you are able to learn - how to avoid this in the future, or what is important to you or even, why this isn't working? With better information and clarity you are able to make healthier decisions that meet the needs of both of you instead of just one.

6. Humor. Yes, some arguments are very serious and some would argue jokes are not appropriate. However, I am Irish as I have said (gallows' humor for sure) and the quicker I can laugh about whatever, the better. Once I was with my sister-in-law taking care of both our kids (four in all) and my husband was two hours late getting back from a bike ride with friends. Over the couple hours he was late - I was getting more and more pissed off. Finally he walks through the door and my sister-in-law greets him with, "Hey, "dead-man-walking" - good to see you upright?" I just about wet my pants I was laughing so hard. Yes, I was still angry, but no longer at the point of inflicting bodily injury...A warning though, not everyone appreciates this humor as I have lost a friend by making this very same joke with her husband. Needless to say, it would have happened sooner or later as I don't take life/events nearly as dramatically as she did.

7. Flexibility and letting go. Once you discover you don't have to be "right" or recognize your part in the argument, you become more flexible. As much as I hate it - disagreements, arguments are opportunities to bring your relationship closer be it a friend or lover. There is no one person on the planet who you would get along with always - not even a soul-mate or twin-flame. There will be disagreements in life if only because each of us is a separate, thinking individual with our own unique perspective. Arguments are an opportunity to learn about yourself and your partner - it just doesn't feel like an opportunity in the heat of the moment. So breathe. Be open to learning new information and once peace/harmony has been restored, let go. Holding grudges or continuing to stew about past arguments is about you - not the other person. These negative feeling hurt you every day and even draw more arguments into your life. If you are having trouble "letting go" try journaling, talking with other friends or possibly seek professional help with a coach or therapist to discover how to let go or what is driving your unresolved feelings

conversation tips....

Here are a few interesting topics of conversation to get you started:

1. Who is the most interesting person you ever met? You can see how this would easily lead people to voice opinions and ask 'why?'.

2. Where in the world would you most like to visit? This dream location may be shared by others and so it makes people feel solidarity, but also, people will be itching to ask 'why?' and keep the conversation flowing.

3. What has been the most life-changing experience you've ever had? Here, people can share funny and touching stories if they want to, which will help you get a deeper understanding of them. Likewise, if people don't feel relaxed enough to give a heart-felt reply they can answer in a funny way and it all adds to the conversation.

4. What is the most spontaneous thing you've you ever done? That opens the door to all sorts of funny and romantic stories.

5. Who's had the biggest influence on your life? Because this person has influenced the person you're asking, they must view them positively and have strong ideas about them. That means they're likely to enjoy talking about them.

6. What thing that you haven't yet done would you most like to do? This kind of inspirational question always gets people talking and everyone's usually happy to chip in with comments about people's hopes and wishes. Just be careful when commenting that you don't rain on their parade. It's their right to have whatever hopes they want.

7. What is the best quality you've inherited from either of your parents? This is particularly interesting at a family gathering when people know the parents you're talking about. It's also a bit of a bonding experience, speaking favorably about your parents.

8. From which person have you learned most in your life? This is another uplifting, positive topic of conversation that usually gets people talking.

9. What historical figure do you most identify with? This lets you know something about the other people around you; it also opens up discussion of the events these historical figures were involved in. Yes, potentially it takes you into dangerous waters of politics and religion but people usually take this question in the spirit of fun in which it's meant, so potentially awkward moments are easily averted.

10. What kind of music do you like? You could then go on to talk of CDs you've bought or gigs you've been too. You might even ask - 'what's the most embarrassing album in your collection?' That's usually met with all-round hilarity!

These ideas should show you that interesting topics of conversation don't need to be complex or intellectual - in fact, the more ordinary the better, because then people feel qualified to talk about the topic.

MEN VS WOMEN

The Ultimate Facts

Men:


1. All men are extremely busy.


2. Although they are so busy, they still have time for women.


3. Although they have time for women, they don't really care for them.


4. Although they don't really care for them, they always have one around.


5. Although they always have one around them, they always try their luck with others.


6. Although they try their luck with others, they get really pissed off if the woman leaves them.


7. Although the woman leaves them they still don't learn from their mistakes and still try their luck with others.

Women:


1. the most important thing for a woman is financial security.


2. Although this is so important, they still go out and buy expensive clothes and stuff.


3. Although they always buy expensive clothes, they never have something to wear.


4. Although they never have something to wear, they always dress beautifully.


5. Although they always dress beautifully, their clothes are always just 'an old rag'.


6. Although their clothes are always 'just an old rag', they still expect you to compliment them.


7. Although they expect you to compliment them, when you do, they don't believe you.

BEST INTERVIEW-TRUE STORY!!!

Interviewer: Tell me about yourself.

Candidate: I am Rameshwar Kulkarni. I did my Tele Communication

engineering from BabanRao Dhole-Patil Institute of Technology.

Interviewer: BabanRao Dhole-Patil Institute of Technology? I had

never heard of this college before!

Candidate: Great! Even I had not heard of it before getting an

admission into it ..

What happened is - due to cricket world cup I scored badly! in

12th.I was getting a paid seat in a good college.

But my father said (I prefer to call him 'baap') - "I can not

invest so much of money".(The baap actually said - "I

will never waste so much of money on you"). So I had to join this

college. Frankly speaking this name - BabanRao Dhole-Patil, can at the
most

be

related to a Shetakari Mahavidyalaya.

Interviewer: ok, ok. It seems you have taken 6 years to complete

your engineering.

Candidate: Actually I tried my best to finish it in 4 years. But

you know, these cricket matches and football

world cup, and tennis tournaments. It is difficult to concentrate.

So I flunked in 2nd and 3rd year. So in all I took

4 + 2 = 7 years.

Interviewer: But 4+2 is 6.

Candidate: Oh, is it? You know I always had KT in maths. But I

will try to keep this in mind. 4+2 is 6, good,

thanks. These cricket matches really affect exams a lot. I think

they should ban it.

Interviewer: Good to know that you want cricket matches to be

banned.

Candidate: No, no... I am talking about Exams!!

Interviewer: Ok, What is your biggest achievement in life?

Candidate: Obviously, completing my Engineering. My mom never

thought I would complete it. In fact, when i

flunked in 3rd year, she was looking for a job for me in BEST (Bus

corporation in Maharashtra) through some relative.

Interviewer: Do you have any plans of higher study?



Candidate: he he he.. Are you kidding? Completing 'lower'

education itself was so much of pain!!

Interviewer: Let's talk about technical stuff. On which platforms

have you worked?

Candidate: Well, I work at SEEPZ, so you can say Andheri is my

current platform. Earlier I was at Vashi center. So Vashi was my
platform

then. As you can see I have

experience of different platforms! (Vashi and Andheri are the places in

Mumbai)

Interviewer: And which languages have you used?

Candidate: Marathi, Hindi, English. By the way, I can keep quiet

in German, French, Russian and many other languages.

Interviewer: Why VC is better than VB?

Candidate: It is a common sense - C comes after B. So VC is a

higher version than VB. I heard very soon they

are coming up with a new language VD!

Interviewer: Do you know anything about Assembly Language?

Candidate: Well, I have not heard of it. But I guess, this is the

language our ministers and MPs use in assembly.

Interviewer: What is your general project experience?

Candidate: My general experience about projects is - most of th! e

times they are in pipeline!

Interviewer: Can you tell me about your current job?

Candidate: Sure, Currently I am working for Bata InfoTech ltd.

Since joining BIL, I am on Bench. Before joining

BIL, I used to think that Bench was another software like Windows.

Interviewer: Do you have any project management experience?

Candidate: No, but I guess it shouldn't be difficult. I know

Word and Excel. I can talk a lot. I know how to

dial for International phone call and use speaker facility. And

very important - I know few words like -

'Showstoppers ' , 'hotfixes',

'SEI-CMM','quality','versioncontrol','deadlines' , 'Customer

Satisfaction' etc. Also I can blame others for my mistakes!

Interviewer: What are your expectations from our company?

Candidate: Not much.

1. I should at least get 40,000 in hand.

2. I would like to work on a live EJB project. But it should not

have deadlines. I personally feel that pressure affects natural talent.

3. I believe in flexi-timings.

4. Dress code is against basic freedom, so I would like to wear

t-shirt and jeans.

5. We must have sat-sun off. I will suggest Wednesday off also, so

as to avoid breakdown due to overwork.

6. I would like to go abroad 3 times a year on short term

preferably 1-2 months) assignments. Personally I prefer

US, Australia and Europe. But considering the fact that there is
Olympics

coming up in

China in the current year, I don't mind

going there in that period. As you can see I am modest and don't

have many expectations. So can I assume my selection?


Interviewer: he he he ha ha ha. Thanks for your interest in our

organization. In fact I was never entertained so much before. Welcome to

INFOSYS.

WHAT SIGN ARE YOU???

ARIES - The Liar

Outgoing. Lovable. Spontaneous. Not one to mess with. Funny. Excellent kisser EXTREMELY adorable. Loves relationships, Addictive. Loud.

TAURUS - The Tramp

Aggressive. Loves being in long relationships. Likes to give a good

fight for what they want. Extremely outgoing. Loves to help people in times of need. Good kisser. Good personality. Stubborn. A caring person. One of a kind. Not one to mess with. Are the most attractive people on earth!

GEMINI - Irresistible

Nice. Love is one of a kind. Great listeners Very Good in the you know where... Lover not a fighter, but will still knock you out.

Trustworthy. Always happy. Loud. Talkative. Outgoing VERY FORGIVING. Loves to make out. Has a beautiful smile. Generous. Strong. THE MOST IRRESISTIBLE.

CANCER - The Cutie

MOST AMAZING KISSER. Very high appeal. Love is one of a kind. Very romantic. Most caring person you will ever meet! Entirely creative. Extremely random and proud of it. Freak.

Spontaneous. Great telling stories. Not a Fighter, But will Knock your lights out if it comes down to it. Someone you should hold on to.

LEO - The Lion

Great talker. Attractive and passionate. Laid back. Knows how to have fun. Is really good at almost anything. Great kisser. Unpredictable. Outgoing. Down to earth. Addictive. Attractive. Loud. Loves being in long relationships. Talkative. Not one to mess with. Rare to find. Good when found.

VIRGO - The One that Waits

Dominant in relationships. Someone loves them right now. Always wants the last word. Caring. Smart. Loud. Loyal. Easy to talk to. Everything you ever wanted. Easy to please. The one and only.

LIBRA - The Lame One

Nice to everyone they meet. Their Love is one of a kind. Silly, fun and sweet. Have own unique appeal. Most caring person you will ever meet! However, not the kind of person you want to mess with... you might end up crying...

SCORPIO - The Addict

EXTREMELY adorable. Intelligent. Loves to joke. Very Good sense of humor. Energetic. Predict future. GREAT kisser. Always get

what they want. Attractive. Easy going. Loves being in long relationships. Talkative. Romantic. Caring.

SAGITTARIUS - The Promiscuous One

Spontaneous.. High appeal. Rare to find. Great when found. Loves being in long relationships. So much love to give. Not one to mess with. Very pretty. Very romantic. Nice to everyone they meet. Their Love is one of a kind. Silly, fun and sweet. Have own unique appeal. Most caring person you will ever meet! Amazing in the you know where..!!! Not the kind of person you want to mess with- you might end up crying.

CAPRICORN - The Passionate Lover

Love to bust. Nice. Sassy. Intelligent. Sexy. Predict future.

Irresistible. Loves being in long relationships. Great talker. Always

gets what he or she wants. Cool. Loves to own Gemini's in sports.

Extremely fun. Loves to joke. Smart.

AQUARIUS - Does It In The Water

Trustworthy. Attractive. Great kisser. One of a kind. Loves being in

long-term relationships. Extremely energetic. Unpredictable. Will exceed your expectations. Not a Fighter, But will Knock your lights out.

PISCES - The Partner for Life

Caring and kind. Smart. Center of attention. High appeal. Has the last word. Good to find, hard to keep. Fun to be around. Extremely weird but in a good way. Good Sense of Humor!!! Thoughtful. Always lets what he or she wants. Loves to joke. Very popular. Silly, fun and sweet.

On my way to the bangalore ashram-aditya!

To start of with,magic has become a part of my life.this magic is not sumthn artificial but sumthn truly divine n magnetizing.it keeps one attracting towards it.it was now my time to visit the bangalore ashram for an advance course but my parents werent allowing me wen i told dem about it.i gave my best expalining them how important dis course was for me,but den they had made their minds.then i jus decided to stay in the present moment n jus leave it on to the master.few dayz passed by and my mind kept reminding me about the course but i was helpless.jus to my satisfaction i asked one of the teachers and my friends as in is there still a place for me.they humbly told it was jam pack n there were around 50 people waiting.after hearing this i decided to take a chillback.coz i didnt wanted to be the 51th.the same day i had a talk wid vinesh-the guy full of energy n positivity.like small childrens i started telling him all those bad things goin around on with me.he silently listened to all my boring story but which was important for me and jus asked to relax and trust my master.yet this wasnt the solution to my answere but i decided to do what he said.as dayz were cuming near i had lost my hopes and couldnt see myself anywhere upto the goal.i was waiting for that one turn in my life and could see myself with my friends in the ashram.moving on more jus to my faith and trust in my master,the day came for what i was waitng for.the same day in the morning i had the thought of bangalore ashram but den till now i had prepared myself to face the truth.it was around 3.00pm in the noon as i was fast asleep and suddenly i got a call from one of our artofliving teacher deepa chedda.i jus saw her call n was confused whether to pick it up or nop as i was too sleepy n lazy to talk on de phone.i dun knuw how i picked up de call and she started of with saying,she had a good news for me.as i was still sleepy i silently replied her saying "what"and den she humbly whispered saying u can cum to bangalore we have a place for you.it took exactly 5 secs to reach my mind but now all of a sudden i got up realising the truth,the turn has taken its place.she asked me to get my money in an hour.i jus asked my aunt about it and she was more excited den me to send me to the blore ashram.she was the one who paid for me n i wouldnt forget this for my lifetime.but den again i was a call away from my father.i had to take his permission as my mother was back in canada.i jus said'jaigurudev'in my mind and i honestly told him about the opportunity.he kindly asked me when i had to leave and wat was the procedure n asked to carryon with it.i would rather say i wasnt in the 9th cloud but the 19th.den the next day i got my trains tickets jus two dayz before off to blore and dat too confirmed.thanx to the general secretary of railway union mr.gupta without whom my train journey was impossible.also i m greateful to vinesh and all my aol friends-sunit,tushar,fernaz alok and my aolites for believeing in me and showing me hope futher. special thanx to deepa chedda for letting me experience me this wonderful oppurtunity.jus to all the people out there reading this start getting used to the magic coz u have no other option.here i go,my journey has began.... on way to the bangalore ashram..!!

EXPERIENCE-VINESH

WELL INTRODUCING MY SELF IS NOTHING BUT INTRODUCING "ME".....I HEARD ABOUT ART OF LIVING 2 YEARS BACK.....BUT NEVER WENT THROUGH IT...MY BEST FRIEND ADITYA....WAS LIKE DO THE COURSE....I USED TO SAY....YEAH YEAH I WILL DO....BUT NEVER GOT THAT OPPORTUNITY TO GET INTO IT....GOT MANY OBSTACLES IN IT.....WHENEVER WE USED TO GET FREE....WE USED TO SPEND TIME WITH VOLUNTEERS OF ART OF LIVING....AND HAD AN AMAZING EXPERIENCE WITH THESE PEOPLE.... WELL WE ARE LIKE HUGE FAN OF VIKRAM BHAIYA ....THE WAY HE PLAYS HIS GUITAR IS SIMPLY AMAZING.....THEN WE STARTED LOVING HIS MUSIC....FIRST WE WERE MORE IN METAL.....WE USED TO ATTAIN ROCK SHOWS ....TO BE VERY FRANK THERE WAS NO MEANING IN THAT MUSIC OTHER THEN SHOUTING.....BUT WHEN WE HEARD VIKRAM BHAIYA'S MUSIC....WE LOVED THE WAY HE PLAYS RUSSIAN ROCK.....HATS OFF...THATS THE REASON WHY WE R LEARNING GUITAR....
AT LAST I DONE THE COURSE USTAV ACT 1 ON APRIL 24.....IT WAS A G8 EXPERIENCE TO SPEND TIME WITH BAWA AND DINESH.....BOTH THESE GUYS KNOW HOW TO LIVE THEIR LIFE TO ITS FULL EXTENT......I CAN ONLY SAY TWO SUPER COOL DUDE'S.......
EXPERIENCE FROM USTAV ACT 1....I CAN SAY DAT THOSE 4 DAYS WERE THE BEST DAYS OF MY LIFE......I WILL NEVER FORGET THEM.....
AHHH NOW IT JUST STRIKE ......MY FRIEND ADITYA CALLED ME UP....HE SAID THERE IS A VOLUNTEERS MEETING AT VISHWAS BHIAYAS PLACE....I WAS LIKE NO DUDE U CARRY ON...I CANT MAKE IT...BUT SUDDENLY .....I SAID FINE I WL COME......AND ADITYA TOOK ME OVER THERE.....AND THERE WERE LIKE 8 PPL WERE SITTING ON A SOFA...COUNTING ME AND ADITYA.....AND OTHERS WERE SITTING DOWN........AND WHEN BAWA AND DINESH ENTERED THE ROOM.... PEOPLE WHO WERE SITTING ON THE SOFA GOT UP.....COUNTING ME AND ADITYA.......BUT WE DONT KNOW WHAT HAPPENED ....WE BOTH GOT CHANCE TO SIT NEXT TO THEM...TO BE VERY FRANK I WAS REALLY TENSED...I DONT KNOW Y...IT WAS LIKE ADITYA BAWA DINESH BHIYA AND ME.....WE WERE SITTING IN THIS MANNER.....AND IN THE NOON TIME ME AND ADITYA WERE JUST CHATTING ON THE PHONE THAT.....C HOW THIS BAWA AND DINESH ARE LIKE VERY CLOSE FRIENDS AND THEY ARE KNOW AS BAWA AND DINESH...WHEREVER THEY GO...AND NOW WE WILL MAKE AS ADITYA AND VINESH....AND TRUST ME IT HAPPENED.....WHICH I NEVER THOUGHT EVEN IN MY WILDEST DREAM....WELL I THINK GURUJI HEARD THAT CONVERSATION BETWEEN ME AND ADITYA.....AND HE MADE THAT DREAM COME TRUE.......
JAI GURUDEV...............